3 Steps to begin learning the guitar

So you have a dream of being a guitarist and playing the songs that you love. Sounds easy enough. The good news is that it really can be that easy and fun. You just need to do a little planning before you actually use the 3 steps to begin learning the guitar – starting the right way.

Young woman learning to play guitar
Playing guitar is a talent for life

Take a moment to close your eyes and imagine yourself in a year. Paint the picture in your mind of you playing for someone. Someone who will encourage you.

You start with confidence, your fingers moving with a gentle flow through the chord shapes. You smoothly play the lead over a backing track. If you have chosen to sing along, the words and chords flow together, creating a word picture that excites and inspires your listener. Got it?

Now what are the 3 steps to begin learning the guitar, which will ensure that dream comes true?

Step 1.  Begin by picking the right guitar for you?

When we first fail at any new skill there is a temptation to blame our tools and this time you could be right. I’ve seen so many new guitarists give up, just because the first few chords they played sounded awful. There is a good reason for this.

  • The guitar won’t stay in tune
  • It’s the wrong size or shape for the student
  • Steel strings can really hurt your fingers

Staying in Tune

The truth is a good guitar doesn’t have to be expensive to sound great. I truly believed that only a $1000 guitar could make me sound great for half of my life. Then I started chatting to other guitarists.

Some strummed, some played lead, some would only play on electric guitars and others only on acoustic guitars but the facts were still the same. If it doesn’t stay in tune for at least one whole song, then it’s a dud and it will make you want to quit. Yes strings do get worn and go out of tune but we are talking 6 weeks of heavy playing or a couple of months with nylon strings.

Many old guitars have old machine heads that slip and this is one of the problems. The new silver stringthe new silver string winders winders at the top of the neck on your guitar shouldn’t slip as you play, so keep this in mind when buying a guitar.

The other problem with a guitar is that being wood the neck can warp and move as they age, or if the temperature changes. My 3/4 size Cordoba warms up as I play, because I always sit down to play and it is resting on my leg. After about 15 minutes I always need to re tune my strings and then they stay in tune for most of my practice.

The wrong size or shape 

Now this is an easy one to get wrong. There are two decisions here.

If you want to play an electric guitar

Be warned that they can be very heavy. This doesn’t mean not to, it’s just that if you are a woman or a child you need to find a guitar that you can comfortably handle. You may choose to sit down and play, so that the weight is resting on your leg and/or wear a strap to help balance it.

If you will be standing, ask yourself if the weight will eventually become uncomfortable enough for you to quit. You don’t want back problems down the track, believe me this is common with solid body guitars. Take your time and try several guitars in a store before buying.

If you want to play a steel string acoustic or a nylon string guitar

Any guitar you choose should feel comfortable when you reach over the top with your right strumming or picking hand. Many top guitarists play 3/4 size guitars with thin necks. There is a miss conception that all nylon string guitars have 2 inch necks.

That used to be the norm but now there are many brands of guitars with narrow necks and small bodies, which make it easier for those of us with small hands to reach comfortably around the neck to form our chords.

I own all three of these types of guitars. When I practise I use my narrow neck nylon string guitar because it doesn’t hurt my fingers and sounds mellow. (It’s also small enough to take on holiday or to the beach) Then when I do a gig, I play my semi-acoustic steel string Ovation for a brighter sound and my electric for leads.

Step 2.  Focus on the type of music you enjoy and want to learn

This is such a personal choice, so don’t be swayed by friends and family, no matter how well-meaning.Stylised guitar in front of planet

If you love rock music then play it. When you truly enjoy singing along to pop songs and want to play and sing them, go for it. Old Jazz songs just sooth your soul, you will keep learning because of this choice.

When Country and Western or the Blues makes you want to pick up a guitar, then follow your dream.

Hearing your favourite songs will inspire you to practice. Even if at the beginning they are out of your skill level, you can work towards playing them one day. Many popular songs are only 4-5 chords.

Step 3.  Plan your practice method

What do I mean by this?

How you choose to learn a song to play will determine how quickly you learn to play. Every piece of music you choose to learn will have a beginning, middle and ending. Professional musicians also add on an introduction, an instrumental in the middle of the song and plan the ending or the Outre. (This is just a fancy word for getting out!)

  • You could get private one on one lessons (someone to keep you motivated and accountable)
  • Research and buy a DVD course of lessons
  • Join an online guitar group with live lessons
  • Try and online guitar course like Guitar Mastery Method
  • Decide to learn from a friend or just pick up what you can
  • Or learn from You tube videos

It all depends on how much money you want to spend and how you personally learn. I will discuss this more in future posts. You can read more on this review.

How we learn and why it’s important to your success

Little girl on a pink guitar
You are never too young to start learning

Just think back for a minute to an important decision you made that worked out for you. Do you think you would have achieved this result if you had just winged it? I doubt it. There was a very important study Gary McPherson did in 2001 concerning ‘Commitment and Practice: Key Ingredients for Achievement During the Early stages of Learning a Musical Instrument.

A Case Study

He followed a large group of children, from Primary School until their final year in High School. Over 10 years to see why some students continued and excelled at learning an instrument and others gave up.

It wasn’t talent, practice, family or any of the other obvious triggers. It was the original decision that they made before beginning as to how long they would play for. A year, through school, or for life. What Gary found without fail, was that it was the personal decision to play for life or a long time, that made the crucial difference to their growth in their performance and continued playing.

They were only practising for 90 minutes a week. (Excerpt from The Talent Code by Daniel Coyle)

What will you decide?

Why you won’t fail

If you’ve read this far and have understood the 3 steps to begin learning the guitar, you will succeed and I look forward to watching your progress. Sharing the challenges and triumphs on your journey. It’s now time to choose a guitar, select some music and start your learning method.

Start today!

Good luck and Enjoy.

LILY

8 thoughts on “3 Steps to begin learning the guitar”

  1. During the period I was looking for a suitable guitar class online for my daughter to serve as another option for days she won’t be able to attend her class, I came across lots of platforms with different patterns, I can say it’s really hard to know the one with credibility. Thanks for this information, it seems little but really useful, the 3 steps are very important and will aid quick learning. Staying in tune is very essential as it affects your deliver. I’ll share this with my daughter and I know it’ll be of help to her. Thanks.

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    • Hi DreaJay,

      Thanks for your comments. It can definitely be very confusing with all the courses on offer. I have put an extensive review of the Learn and Master Guitar course and the Guitar Mastery Method on my website as these are two of the finest. Hopefully, on will suit your daughter and they are not expensive.

      Let me know if I can help in any way.

      Regards,

      Lily 🙂

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  2. I have set out to start my lessons on both guitar and the piano next two months. I am so exited at the thought of where I will be in the next 1 year.I appreciate your advice especially on old guitars. I have been tempted to purchase a used one for half the price but I see how this could be problematic. I would probably get myself a DVD course of lessons to help me practice. Thank you for your valuable advice. 

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    • Hi Carol,

      I’m thrilled that this has inspired you to get started. Have a read of my Learn and Master Review it will help you decide. The free YouTubes on Steve Krenz’s lessons will help you see if you will enjoy his style of teaching.

      Have fun and let me know how you go.

      You are welcome

      Lily:-)

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  3. When it comes to musical instruments, it’s very nice to have the proper training and information about it as it’ll help the learning process. These 3 steps are relatively of great importance and it’ll be very useful if considered. It’s true that focusing on the type of music you want to play helps a lot as it enables you to perfect that particular type even if there are possibilities of learning another. If taken accordingly,these steps should help a lot, I’ll share it to some other people who plays guitar so they’ll learn. It’s very thoughtful of you to share this informative and educative article.

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    • Hi Wildecoll,

      I’m so pleased you enjoyed my article. It’s designed to get people thinking about the process of learning guitar. I hope your friends get some use from the tips.

      Let me know if I can help in any way.

      Lily 🙂

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  4. Hello Lily,

    This is an interesting article. I loved how you made us imagine our future with a guitar. It really motivated me. Even though I know only a small amount of guitar playing, I learned some good points from you. It’s good thing to know what to look for when we are buying a guitar and what are the good training courses out there. And I 100% agree with you on chosing the music that we like to play. That applies to anything new isn’t it? We should start from what we love. Otherwise it is hard to keep our life long motivation and move forward. Could you please recommend what should I look for when buying a guitar case?

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    • Hi Anjali, Thanks for reading my article, I’m so glad you enjoyed it. Yes, it’s all about motivation.

      It will depend on the guitar you already have, It needs to be the right shape for your guitar and fit snug in the case. Hard cases are best as they are designed to take the hard knocks but a soft case is lighter and easier to fit in cars and move around. But it won’t protect your guitar from dropping, only from scuffs and bumps.

      Hopes this helps. Let me know if you need some more help.

      Lily 😉

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